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Wisdom Letter #169
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Today we continue to talk about models of influence.
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Inspired by the phenomenal book Influence By Robert Cialdini, we cover the 6 models of persuasion.
Last week we talked about -
Today we are talking about
Let’s dive in👇
“People want more of what they can have less of”
When resources are considered scarce, their perceived value increases.
In our hunter-gatherer days, the knowledge of the scarcity of any resource would push our ancestors to rush to hoard those resources.
Our brain still perceives the scarcity in the same manner - This little piece of hardware has not evolved to the digital age, not yet.
We rush to access the resources that we perceive as scarce - even if it means paying a higher price (in terms of time, money, and effort) for it.
This principle is abundantly used by retailers.
This is the truth behind those “Limited period offer”, “Only 4 available in stock”.
Note that this model gives the desired results when we believe the scarcity to be true. Once you know that scarcity is made up, it does not have the same influence.
We are wired to follow the authority.
When we perceive somebody to be an authority we are more likely to follow through on their recommendation without much doubt.
Note that it is the perception of authority. It has little to do with your actual knowledge or expertise in the domain.
The appearance of authority is enough
We are trained from birth to obey the right authority. This is embedded in our parenting, teaching, and above all - our religion.
From very early on, we are rewarded for obedience and punished for disobedience of the authority.
This is so deeply ingrained that even when there is no reward or punishment, we find it hard to defy authority - even if it means giving fatal shocks to a random stranger.
This is widely seen when we rush to buy products endorsed by celebrities - we associate their expertise to that of the product.
Our default reaction - If this influential person is saying that this product/service is good - it must be.
It also works in a big way in smaller things in life
For example, in a doctor’s clinic supposed minor things like her Lab coat, her nameplate with all the titles and designations on her office’s entrance, a wall adorned with past accolades and awards - Together increase the degree of our perception of the doctor as an authority.
A lab coat does not make her a better doctor, neither does the show of awards and titles. The only thing these details change is our perception of the doctor.
And this is what forces us to act on the advice she gives.
Our inability to defy an authority jumps us into action.
Social Proof 👨👨👦👦
The way we define what is correct is to find out what others think is correct.
The more people we see following a certain behavior, the more we perceive this behavior to be correct.
As a species, we were able to conquer the world by working together in a group. As individuals, we would have been eaten by the lions of the savannah.
Following the group forms an integral part of how we think and act.
We have evolved to learn that our likelihood to go wrong is less when we behave like our peers.
Behaving differently than our peers is more likely to bring trouble.
The ratings that we see on ecom websites are social proof that it has been endorsed by so many of our kind.
The more likes on a social media post invite even more likes.
Rash driving, littering, social etiquette are all governed by the behavior we see in our peers.
One common thing that governs all these models is that they are all based on the way our brain (the hardware) functions.
This powerful organ has not evolved at the pace at which our environment has evolved since our hunter-gatherer days.
It still believes it is in the African savannah and acts accordingly.
But our mind, our software, should know better. We need to constantly upgrade our software to match the realities of the real world.
And learning the way this hardware operates is one way to tame this wild beast.
For a longer discussion on these 3 models, read an older issue of The Wisdom Project -
There we discuss -
The learning from each model
Recommended reading and more learning content around these topics.
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